The Distinguished And Sophisticated Men Of Royalty, Inc. was founded on October 31, 2000 in Tallahassee, FL by Petal Sebastian Alexander & former member Sean Benjamin where the first charter was granted to the Alpha Delta Epsilon chapter. Our organization is open to all gay and bisexual men who share a heart for service, a mind for leadership, and a goal for social change. 


Our founding principle of service continues to be the core of our organization. DASMOR believes that it does not take higher education to possess an ability to serve, therefore, we do not require, but encourage,  potential members to pursue higher education.


We aim to be a forerunner in the advancement of the LGBTQIA+ community, specifically gay and bisexual men, through activities such as The Big Bends Aids Walk, plus more.

After a seven-year hyades from 2002-2009, DASMOR returned in the fall of 2009 with a stronger and more strategic vision for the business and brotherhood of the organization. Since, we continue to expand and strive towards greater.

The Distinguished and Sophisticated Men of Royalty, Incorporated (DASMOR, Inc)
goal is to enhance superior intellectual, social or economic status, as well as assist in community service and academic achievement.

Founders: Sebastian Alexander (pictured to the right), Former Member Sean Benjamin

Fraternal Mascot: Majestic Lion
Fraternal Flower: Yellow Tea Rose
Slogan: “Followers are plentiful, Leaders are few”
Fraternal Colors: Royal Blue, Antique Gold, Onyx Black


Our 14-Core Values: Value, Success, Dignity, Worth, Power, Obligation, Wisdom, Virtue, Improvement, Joy, Leadership, Education, Commitment, and Loyalty





The Distinguished And Sophisticated Men Of Royalty believe that one must carry thyself with much shown dignity and authority in his appearance, demeanor, and presence. I must not be naive of mishaps and must always display knowledge of worldly do’s and do not’s; while remaining humble and
diligent whilst being confident of what I know I am capable of. I, being a man of DASMOR shall never doubt thyself, the fraternity, and shall always, even when things seem awry; I will remain brotherly and 
carry oneself to the highest esteem.

A world in which the LGBTQAI+ community has equal rights and are acknowledged and embraced with open arms and respect without disregard.